Ms. LaVie's School of Loving Arts

Course Catalog

Ms LaVie's Course Catalog

The following is a list of topics for classes and workshops, by category, offered by Ms. LaVie's School of Loving Arts. Classes on these topics are available when at least 5 people express interest and commit to attending one session or a series of sessions. All topics can be adapted for specific groups upon request. In some cases, additional facilitators and speakers are included and/or invited to present.

Ms. LaVie creates a safe, welcoming, and enjoyable atmosphere for each event. Settings for classes and events vary and learning environments can be brought to your location when requested.

If you or your group is interested in experiencing a class or series of classes on any of the topics listed here, contact Candessa Hadsall, aka "Ms. LaVie", at 612-396-0226 or email her at Contact US

Body-Centered Classes for Individuals

    The difference between sensuality and sexuality
    Creating sensual experiences
    Techniques for getting comfortable with touch
    The role of massage
    Explore different kinds of touch
    Learn ways to feel alive through relaxation, breathing and imagery, and self-massage techniques
    What is meant by "body image"?
    Explore the impact of body image on ones sexuality
    Turn negative images into positive images
    Learn about different types of orgasms, multiple orgasms, ejaculation and more
    Breathing techniques for moving energy
    Learn the difference between orgasm and ejaculation
    Breathing techniques for moving energy
    Express your sensual nature through movement and dance

    The Art of Sensual Living

    Appreciate Healthy Touch

    Sensual Massage for Singles

    Body Image

    Self-Pleasuring for Women

    Self-Pleasuring for Men

    Pampering the Body and Nourishing the Soul

    Expanding Orgasmic Potential for Women

    Expanding Orgasmic Potential for Men

    The Art of Seduction for Women

Body-Centered Classes for Couples

    Transform ordinary activities into celebrations of love
    Express your love and joy through music and movement

    Tantric Massage for Couples

    Sacred Intimacy Rituals

    Partner Dancing with Passion

Sexual Health and Wellness 

    Share a meal prepared by a professional chef and learn about the effects of a healthy diet on sexuality
    The value of being sexually fit
    Exercises to enhance sexual abilities
    Kegal exercises for men and women

    Healthy Eating for Body and Soul - Dinner Party

    Sexual Fitness

Sexual Healing 

    Define sexuality, cultural messages and stereotypes
    Examine personal messages and their affect on sexuality
    Learn more about who you are as a sexual being
    The role of self-esteem in interpersonal relationships
    Sexual self-esteem
    Overcoming an abusive past
    Building self-esteem
    What do we mean by "body image"?
    Explore the impact of body image on ones sexuality
    Turning negative images into positive images
    The effects past abuse can have on self-esteem and relationships
    Steps for addressing and healing old wounds
    Techniques for getting comfortable with touch
    The role of massage
    Defining addictions
    The origin of addictions
    How addictive behaviors affect relationships

    Get to Know Your Sexual Self - Introductory Class (4 sessions)

    When I love Myself Enough, I will...

    Body Image

    Healing Sexual Trauma (multiple sessions)

    Radical Forgiveness for Self and Others

    Learning to Give and Receive Healthy Touch

    Addictions and Sex

Sex Coaching 

    The difference between sensuality and sexuality
    Creating sensual experiences
    Join like-minded people in discussing ways to confront, both individually and as a community, the negative influences in our culture that attempt to discourage and demonize sexual pleasure and passion.
    Learn about radical lovemaking practices that can positively impact and help heal the world
    Build a sex-positive community
    The role of sex toys in self-pleasuring and partner relationships
    Exploring different types of sex toys and equipment
    Getting comfortable with sex toys
    Using sex toys safely
    Field trip to Fantasy Gifts, Sex World, Smitten Kitten
    Finding sex toy sites on the web
    Dealing with mid-life issues, changes, and challenges
    For those not ready for commitment, how to get sexual needs met in conscious, respectful ways and without shame and guilt
    Lovemaking skills that enhance any relationship

    Bring More Sensuality Into Your Life

    Living and Loving Passionately in Conservative Times

    The Art of Flirting

    Playtime - Having Fun with Sex Toys

    "Sex Over 50" OR "Sex Over 60": Keeping the Fire Burning

    Re-entering the Dating Scene For Newly Single People

    The Art of One-Night Stands for Singles

    Sexual Freedom: Design the Sex Life You Want

    The Art of Living Alone and Loving It

    Choosing Celibacy Rather than Settling for It

    The Art of Sensual and Passionate Lovemaking

    Ethics and Boundaries for Managing Multiple Relationships

Relationship Skills 

    Core components
    Clarifying what is important - everyone is different
    Understanding power
    Drama triangle and truth telling
    Boundaries
    Misuse of power
    The importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries
    Skills and attitudes that foster deep connections with self and others
    Learn to make sexy meals and treats
    Aphrodisiacs
    Non-violent, non-judgmental communication
    How to talk so my partner will listen

    Healthy Relationships

    Power Dynamics in Relationships

    Boundaries

    The Art of Intimacy

    Sensual cooking

    Communication Skills In and Out of the Bedroom

    Aural Sex: The Art of Listening to My Partner

    Ethics and Boundaries for Managing Multiple Relationships

    Handling the Aftermath of Betrayal

Sexuality and Spirituality 

    Create sacred space and events at home
    Learn the true meaning of "tantra" and how to connect deeply with your partner
    Experience moving sexual-life force energy using breathing, movement and sound
    Practice expanding the emotional body to create more passionate connections
    Learn to open your heart and trust more deeply as you honor the Divine Lover in yourself and your partner
    Men learn the importance of cultivating solo and partner practices that honor, respect and nurture the women in their lives

    The Use of Ritual

    Sacred Sexuality: Bringing In Divine Essence

    Introduction to Tantra

    Embracing the Heart in Sacred Relationships

    What Men Need to Know about Serving The Goddess

Self-Empowerment 

    Assertive vs. aggressive vs. passive
    Owning ones own personal power
    Family of origin issues, values

    Understanding Personal Power

    Writing Erotica

Expand Your Sexual Intelligence Quotient 

    Use archetypes of gods and goddesses for personal empowerment Astrological influences
    Journaling techniques Enhancing ones personal journey
    The origins of cultural and individual values and beliefs about sexuality
    How sexuality is affected by ones beliefs and values
    Defining addictions
    The origin of addictions
    How addictive behaviors affect relationships
    Non-violent, non-judgmental communication
    Understand the range of possible sexual behaviors including sado-masochism, domination and submission, fetishes, alternative life-styles
    Four Play: group sexual experiences
    Presentation by individuals who participate in nudist organizations
    Presentation by individuals involved in simultaneous multiple relationships
    Skills and attitudes important in sustaining healthy multiple relationships
    What is "compersion"?
    The role of sexual fantasy in self-pleasuring and relationships
    Homosexuality, bisexuality, heterosexuality, and transsexuality defined
    Assess individual attitudes, values and drives

    Who Am I Really?

    The Importance of Journaling

    Exploring sexual values and desires

    Clarifying Sexual Values and Beliefs

    Addictions and Sex

    Communication Skills In and Out of the Bedroom

    Variations in Sexual Behaviors

    What Does It Mean to be a Nudist?

    What Is Polyamory and Is It For Me?

    Sexual Fantasy

    Understanding Variations in Sexual Orientation

General Events 

    A safe circle is created for men only to facilitate discussions on various topics related to sexuality and relationships. Led by male facilitator, with possibility of bringing in female facilitator when appropriate and upon request of the group. This can be a one-time event or an on-going group. It must maintain regular attendance of at least 4 men.
    A safe circle is created for women only to facilitate discussions on various topics related to sexuality and relationships. Facilitated by Ms. LaVie and/or other trained counselors and facilitators knowledgeable about sexual topics. This can be a one-time event or an on-going group. It must maintain regular attendance of at least 4 women.

    Men Speak

    Women Speak

    Ask Ms. LaVie Anything

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